Friday, September 27, 2024
Léna and Dan are much more than a couple in life: together, they have managed to combine a passion for equestrianism with professional collaboration. He, a professional rider, and she, an influencer and communications expert, create a complementary duo on the showgrounds and in their daily lives. How do they manage to balance their relationship with their career in the demanding world of equestrian sport?
Find out how this couple turns challenges into opportunities, and their advice for those who want to combine love and professional ambitions.
Léna Our first meeting with Dan was during a video shoot for his father's company. They were my partners during the Miss Alsace election, and that's where we first met.
We're both very passionate, very much in love with horses. We complement each other quite well. As everyone says, we're a bit tick and tock. He's water and I'm fire.
And when it comes to sport, we have the same values and the same desires. We manage to mix personal, professional and sport. So it's a real pleasure."
Léna I'd say love, passion and sport."
"Léna helped me a lot with all the communication stuff, because I wasn't very good at it. So she really shared her experience in that field with me.
She's given me some great content, which inevitably brings in brands and partners. And I've come to realize that social networking is really important. It's really important for everything: business, partners, contacts...
So, beyond bringing me his experience, it's really something very important for my development, quite simply."
"I've been able to discover another vision of horses and riding itself. As far as competition management is concerned, I'm really learning to enjoy myself. I know that Dan's motto before I entered the ring was 'Léna, make yourself happy'.
Indulge yourself while respecting the well-being of your horses. We take them out a lot, we look after them all day long. When we feel they're a little more tired, we take it easy on them and adapt their work. We try to do our best so that the rider-horse pairing is the best it can be.
What's also very important in the equestrian world is theprofessional aspect. It's completely different from what I knew before. I went from a Club 2 (85cm) to an amateur 1.10m Grand Prix.
Everything I see with Dan is different: the training, the management of the horses, the beautiful competitions. It's this side that I've discovered and that I love, especially with him. He's really an example for me in the professional equestrian world."
"I've really seen Léna evolve in a number of ways, particularly on the psychological side. Now she takes much more pleasure in riding. Then, it's true that in four months, she's gone from jumping 90 cm to jumping 1.10 metres without a fault, classified. From pony to horse, from club to amateur, that's already a big step forward. Gracieuse was a superb opportunity for her. I've entrusted her with my mare, and the pairing works very well.
After that, she's learning a lot technically, and very quickly. With all the daily advice, going to competitions and seeing professional riders all the time, it helps a lot. She's really progressed thanks to that."
Léna Léna: "The biggest challenge we had to face at the beginning was time, managing the character and the horses. Especially as my pony was at the opposite end of the spectrum to where Dan is. It was a real challenge because he was with his horses all the time. Of course he found time for me, but his priority was the horses, which I quickly realized.
Now we' re able to find compromises. After that, we're both very passionate, so it's easier too. Dan, instead of finishing at 10:00 pm, he would try to finish at 8:00 pm so as to have a bit of time for me. We go to little restaurants, but we try to keep our non-horse activities going at least once a week. And that's what makes our relationship work today."
Dan Léna's life was a little more "traditional" at first. She went riding on Saturdays, or even a few times a week. The rest, she had a "normal" life compared to us riders. And it's true that now, with me, she's much more focused on the idea of one day having a structure, clients, competing at the highest level and doing it all the time."
Léna Léna: "It's true that now that I'm in this environment with Dan, it makes me want to have projects in the horse world. That's about to start: Dan has a stud farm and foals. As a joint project, I said to him "I'd love to help you with the pre-brooding, to accompany you in this. I want to make you an Instagram page - King Kong breeding.
These are all joint projects in the horse world. Just like in 10 years' time, we'll have a structure and horses for sale. Now we're taking our time, we're still young."
Dan One of our biggest successes was when we came third in the French championship with Flirt. And Léna was with me, of course. It's the culmination of a lot of hard work, because I hadn't had it long either.
And afterwards, if I can recount another great success story, it was somethingquite moving: Léna's first runs. It's a very simple thing, but when she managed to make her first rankings, we were all very moved."
Léna Yeah, it was so cute. As for the French championships, the moment that really stood out for me was when you stood on the podium and I got to go with you. It was a truly magical moment. We spend all our time with horses and when there are achievements like that, we're happy. I was like Dan, in my head I'd also finished third in the championship. And when I was doing my first amateur shows, he was as stressed as I was, even though he shows all the time. So we're really there for each other."
Léna You should know that I have a very busy schedule. I'm doing a Master 1 sandwich course and creating content for social networks. Balancing my love life, continuing to pursue my sporting goals with Gracieuse and my professional goals with the networks is a question oforganization.
We very rarely have days where we do nothing, it's never happened to me in the eight months we've been together. We regularly get up at 6:00, 6:30 or even 7:00 when we're lucky, and finish our days around 10:00 or 11:00. When he's at school, I try to be there for the horses. I try to come a little earlier, do the stalls, help him a bit. And vice versa. It's a real give-and-take: he helps me, just as I help him."
Dan Yes, it wasn't easy at first. I had to realize that horses were really what I wanted to do, and that unfortunately you can't make too many concessions if you want to get there. But you soon got the hang of it and we're helping each other achieve our goals."
Léna Léna: "The advice I'd give to couples is communication. Because both Dan and I have very busy schedules, so we've had to make concessions. And I think you need love, you need a bit of passion.
What's really important is thatone person doesn't deprive themselves of doing something, or vice versa. You really have to keep doing what you love and be on the same wavelength with your partner. If I were with someone who didn't have the same vision of horses at all, it certainly wouldn't work."
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